It’s difficult to see an aging father reach a point where full independence is impossible. Helping Dad transition from a role of caregiver to that of someone who needs care can be just as difficult—and can begin to feel like an exercise in walking on eggshells. Polite offers of help can be met with stern rebuffs, leaving you feeling helpless.
No one is ever fully ready for the tough, but necessary, conversations with a father who is clinging to his former way of life, but prolonging his struggles could have serious consequences in the long run.